Tag: Premarital Sex


Simcha hits another grand slam:

Premarital sex hurts you both, even if you marry the person you had it with.   If you never learn self control before marriage, it will be very difficult to learn it afterward.  Moreover, sex that comes before commitment makes the entire relationship muddy and messy.  One reader describes a good sex ed class:  “One analogy included a pyramid of building blocks, with the top block in the relationship being sex. When built correctly, it works well and is great, but when you build the relationship on sex (demonstrator flips pyramid over, it falls apart) it doesn’t work because there is no good strong foundation.”